Getting married is not easy and it is certainly not the cheapest of decisions to make, so how are you going to do it?
Cost
Cost is very important and it seems to me that it is the first thing that pops into my head. Perhaps this is because I am male and do not need to see the point in paying out thousands of pounds for one day of people making a fool out of themselevs marquees. However I do see the appeal of getting married, if you love each other then it has to be the biggest commitment you can make. When it comes to the cost you may actually end up getting help from your parents or her parents in the more traditional cases.
Venue
Where on earth are you going to have this wedding? Are you going to marquees rent or perhaps go for the more traditional Church wedding? Do not go for the option that your best friend took or go for something that someone recommends but go for something that you both feel is right. Ladies need to note that although this is often classed as your big day, the groom should have a chance to discuss everything also, he is after all the second most important person of the day and he might not want to get married under traditional marquees.
Of course it isn’t just the cost and venue that you need to worry about but the organisation of it all too. Something else that needs to be thought of is who on earth are you going to invite. Then the honeymoon, where are you going to go and who is going to be paying for it all?
Just sitting down as a couple and talking it all out is the best thing to do really.